12 Common Characteristics Of People Who Love Traveling
12 Common Characteristics Of
People Who Love Traveling
By - Nick Darlington
If you are like me, you absolutely love to travel. It is a part of who
you are. And when you are asked why you travel by friends, family or complete
strangers, you will list a myriad of reasons:
1. You love meeting new people.
2. You love experiencing new things.
3. You love seeing new places.
4. You love tasting new foods.
5. You love adventure and the spontaneity that the journey brings.
6. You enjoy pushing yourself out of your comfort zone
7. You enjoy the personal growth that happens within you through the
culmination of everything you experience and the people you meet.
I want to specifically touch on this last point – the personal
growth and the transformation that happens within because this can be difficult
to express, unless you actually give it some serious thought. I know I
struggled to express this in words when I returned from backpacking on my own
for over a year. I had undergone a massive change personally. But, what exactly
did this look like on paper?
Let’s analyze 12 common characteristics of people who love traveling. Bear
in mind that many of these are learned traits that are refined the more one
travels. And if you are an aspiring traveler – the best advice
I can give you is take the plunge. Traveling will change you for the better.
Without a doubt.
1. We are adventurous
Traveling more often than not involves venturing out into the unknown.
It involves traveling to a new place, meeting new people and engaging in new
experiences. As travelers, we naturally have an adventurous spirit. It is part
of who we are, and the more we travel, the more we feed this spirit. Adventure
is our normal.
2. We are empathetic
We have a strong sense of empathy. This is a culmination of our diverse
experiences, the diverse cultures we encounter and the diversity of the people
we meet. We may encounter immense poverty in certain countries. We will share
stories with random strangers. We will work random jobs, from being a bartender,
to a cleaner and even a waiter.
We have experienced tough times such as being stranded or having our
bags stolen. All these experiences and encounters allow us to accept and
appreciate differences amongst people. They allow us to see the world differently
and see things through another persons’ point of view.
3. We are willing to learn; we are curious
As we move from place to place and meet new people we continuously find
ourselves learning new things (whether out of choice or not). We become
intensely curious about everything and are eager to learn new things, whether
it be cultural customs or a new skill.
4. We welcome change; it’s a way of life
When we travel, the only constant is change. We find ourselves
surrounded by new people and new places regularly. Over time, we learn to
welcome those changes. We learn to expect them. When we meet a new person, we
are cognisant of the fact that that person has their own travel itinerary in
mind and they probably won’t be around forever. Change
becomes a way of life.
5. We have higher self-awareness
Self-awareness refers to our knowledge and awareness of our own
personality and character. It also allows us to understand ourselves better and
how others perceive you. It is the first step in developing your EQ and it is
shaped by our experiences. As travelers, we draw from a diverse spectrum of
experiences as it relates to people and cultures. Through traveling often and
reflecting on those experiences we develop higher self-awareness.
6. We have higher self-esteem
Whilst we travel, we find ourselves continuously pushing ourselves out
of our comfort zones. We talk to random strangers. We meet new people at
hostels. We create travel plans on the move. We overcome challenges such as
having to deal with having money stolen (this happened to me; my entire account
was cleaned out in New Zealand). All this improves our confidence in our own
abilities; to overcome any challenges that are thrown our way. Traveling
develops our self-esteem.
7. We know ourselves better
This may seem cliché, but it’s true. Traveling
teaches us about our strengths, our weakness, what we like and don’t like. It
teaches us about our personality.
For example during my travels, I spent time living and working on a
dairy farm (very remote) and also time living and working in a city, where I
lived with 16 people in a house. I enjoyed both experiences, but at some point,
I either longed for more human interaction (when working on the dairy farm) or
more ‘me-time’ (whilst working in the city). I am an introvert and an extrovert. What
have you learned about yourself through traveling?
8. We are more observant
“A traveler without observation is like a bird without wings.” – Moslih Eddin
Saadi.
It may not seem obvious that we as travelers are observant. After all,
there is so much that we need to take in as we move from place to place. Surely
our brains will filter out a lot of information as to prevent information
overload?
If you think about it though it is for that exact reason that we are
more observant. We have become accustomed to taking in a lot. A sensory
overload if you like. Of sights. Places. People. Our brains are well accustomed
to taking in a lot more and as a result we filter out less. We have trained
ourselves to observe more. And besides, we have far less distractions such as
mobile phones and laptops.
9. We are more grateful
Gratitude is the base or foundation from which appreciation grows. When
we are traveling we are often exposed to other people who live in immense
poverty. We are exposed to ways of living that seem morally incorrect. This
makes us more grateful for what we do have. For being able to have food. To be
able to afford to actually travel in the first place. It’s easy to forget.
10. We are more appreciative
From our feelings of gratitude, we develop a greater appreciation. We
find beauty in those things that we previously took for granted. We accept,
that that plate of food we have is giving us the needed nutrition. We recognize
it’s value. We are more than grateful for those hiking shoes, we
appreciate the value they provide in supporting our feet hike after hike. We
appreciate our family and friends back home. Our appreciation is heightened.
11. We are very independent
When I was traveling and landed in New Zealand I didn’t have much
money, but I made it work and organized myself accommodation and work.
When we travel, we realize it is just us and the big wide world. We are
responsible for every step and action we take. Where we go. The places we see.
The people we interact with. We learn to deal with any challenges that come our
way, whether it be having to sort out visas, book accommodation or even
organize a job.
12. We adapt well
Traveling by nature requires us to continuously adapt; to new
environments, experiences and people. Traveling to a new country where there is
different food, language(s) and ways of living, requires us to adapt our diets,
learn some of the local language and function within new laws. There is
constant change and we need to constantly adapt. Use that on your CV when
applying for a job, where someone is skeptical about your ability to adapt to a
new position.



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